Old Sluts: the Root of Circumcisions

Old sluts are responsible for the circumcision of their grandchildren.  There aren’t any considerable health benefits to circumcision . . . especially when hunter and gatherer societies conducted the act of circumcising before the availability of antibacterial products and anesthesia.  Grandmas helped young mothers raise children because grandma already passed childbearing age and had the time to help.  Grandma, in her old sluttiness, insisted on circumcision being conducted in her grandchildren.

Men have loads of nerve endings in their penis tips so that they will enjoy sex – leading to the proliferation of the species.  Men also have masses of nerve endings in their fingers, so that they can be sensitive to touch.  Human fingers become less sensitive to touch over the course of human lives because the skin over fingers grows thicker and more leathery as man consistently touches rough surfaces.  It’s a protection measure for man’s nerve endings.  Laborers grow thicker skin over their fingers (callouses) than non-laborers.  But, no matter what man’s occupation as he ages his fingers become less sensitized.  The same thing happens to the exposed (circumcised) tip of the penis.  An exposed tip rubs against rough clothing and over time penises lose sensitivity.  The foreskin, if left uncut, protects the penis and sustains its moisture so that it won’t grow leathery and remains sensitive. 

The climax of a woman is more prolonged than a man’s.  It takes her longer to get there.  There’s nothing more disappointing to a woman about sex than premature ejaculation.  High sensitivity in the penis causes premature ejaculation.  Hunter and gatherer grandmothers, over the course of their lives, had multiple partners in the sack.  They spent hours, days, and weeks talking with other sluts about their sexual experiences.  Collectively, they realized that circumcised men lasted longer in the hay, and satisfied women more often than uncircumcised men.  Grandma insisted on the circumcision of her grandchildren.  -antiwasp

Filed under: Culture, Evolution, Parenting, Relationships, Time, World Wide Policy

Man not capable of love: Will never see eye-to-eye with wife

Love hasn’t fully evolved in human males, yet.  We’re still evolving, and the “love trait” is there for love to form if “fitness” calls for it to form . . . but it won’t necessarily develop if fitness doesn’t call for it.  Love is for the woman.  She needs the male’s presence and loyalty during pregnancy when she’s weak and physically vulnerable, and after giving birth to provide for her as she cares for the child.  Love has fully evolved in human females. 

I live in a world that my wife could never conceive, and vice versa.  I can’t appreciate the feelings she has, and she can’t understand my natural urges.  She doesn’t see this.  She thinks I’m able to understand her, to see the world through her eyes, but I can’t.  I don’t have her emotional filters.  I’m not capable.  The wife and I will never be on the same level.  -antiwasp

Filed under: Evolution, Relationships, Self Actualization, Wisdom

On Marriage: Chemical Difficulty

I have a friend that will be officially divorced in three short weeks.  Many events and feelings that I witnessed ushered them to the divorce, including: his yearning to fuck women other than his wife, conflict between the two on whether to procreate or not, clashing media tastes, opposing political views, and a total unwillingness to admit wrong or compromise on both their parts.  In his opinion (of course), he made the right choice for both of them.  They would have made each other unhappy to no end.  They were too different.  But isn’t that the case with all heterosexual married couples?

We’re dissimilar because we’re structured for (hopefully) complimentary tasks within our family unit.  We’re not supposed to agree because we see the world through polarized lenses.  In short, chemicals flow through me set upon genes that route me to behave like other men, and have interest in things that other men find important.  Culture can’t change that.  Just the same, my wife has chemicals flowing through her set upon genes that route her to behave like other women, and concern over things that other women find important.  Culture can’t change that, either.

We’re not doomed, though.  We simply need to realize that we’re unalike by (evolutionary) design for the sake of fitness.  Men and women evolved to dance with one another, not next to each other doing the same routine, but with one another . . . melting together to become one.  Together we’re hunters, nurturers, scholars, warriors, teachers, and parents.  Alone we’re incomplete.  Our relationships are a complicated dance that conflicts with the immediate satisfaction that today’s society brings us to expect.  It’ll take patience, reflection, and courage.  Life-long joy isn’t far off once we realize this.  Fuck heaven, have it here.  -antiwasp

Filed under: Evolution, Parenting, Relationships, Self Actualization