I enjoy running, wrestling, throwing, catching, slamming, wacking and jumping with my two and four-year old sons. But, my wife would rather that we look up science experiments on YouTube and try them because that’s a less rowdy activity. I don’t want to influence their behavior and allow them to think that rowdiness is acceptable at inappropriate times, but I also would like to raise my boys as boys instead of girls (I know that sounds sexist). The idea is that since I have boys my boys will play sports. If I had girls it wouldn’t matter to me if the girl played sports. (I guess I am a sexist. I don’t think I knew that before.)
- Maybe if I restrict the areas that we play . . . like set up certain areas for sports and make sports off-limits in other locations.
- I could also give them certain play clothing . . . they can’t get rowdy without their uniforms.
- We could have play times . . . if it’s not time for sports you can’t play them.
See? I can do this. This parenting thing is just tedious . . . it doesn’t take a genius. Any ideas? -antiwasp
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